Starting Out Swinging by Ninenday

We are Nitendays on Fabswingers and Instagram from a little country called Wales in the UK best known for our rugby and our singing…..

Here is the story of how we got into the swinging lifestyle we hope you enjoy.

Eight years ago we started talking about fantasies and what we both wanted to try, as we have been together for 20 years this year and at this time we started it was 12 years together and we thought let’s see what else is out there for us both to try sexually. 

Mrs always did like the attention of males and was very straight at this point, needless to say this has changed over our time and she now enjoys her bisexual encounters as well as the male’s encounters. We looked into it and found a site called adult friend finder and to be honest the site was very expensive and people were miles away from us, so we had zero success, we had a few messages but nothing worth following up due to the travelling and the clearly fake accounts.

After a few months of failure we decided to cancel the membership and look for another local site and we came across a free local site called Fabswingers and we thought let’s give it a go and we created a profile on the Monday. Now, we had no guide or even any structure of what to put in a profile so we as the same as you did the usual no no’s you put in the profile, but we have since learnt to put in what we want, and what we are looking for but it did take a few profile changes along the way. 

The site had a chat function and as newbies we thought as you do oh well a place to chat and get to know what’s going on, maybe we could find our feet and chat to like-minded people so we entered the chat and entered our local area chat with a massive 6 people in the room, and we thought this would be terrible but to our surprise we entered the room very nervous and sent out the usual hi message and to our surprise the room was very friendly and put our minds at ease and in the room was a party organizer, we got chatting and on the Friday was a meet and greet as you call them but we call them social events, talk about falling in lucky and also the deep end being newbies and totally naive to it all.

Friday came by so fast and we were like what do you wear to these events is it sexy or is it normal club wear, the men we agree is easy. A decent shirt and the jeans was the way forward but must be shoes for Mr and not trainers, Mrs did struggle at first to pick out a dress as you want to stand out but the with the first time social nerves and what to expect was playing on her mind all week, she went for a little black number in the end.

We turned up to a nightclub in the center of a town and we were nearly sick when we entered the club, it was three stories high with loud music and smoke machines, needless to say we didn’t really know where to put ourselves besides the bar and there was no seating at all except downstairs near the DJ booth which was not the best place to talk as we couldn’t hear anything, at this time Mrs smoked back then, we know a shocking habit but on this occasion it was good for us as we got to meet a transvestite that was stood outside smoking, now don’t get us wrong some can dress and look really good but some look like let’s be kind here better in the dark, we did not know at this time that this guy was well connected and well known through the local swinger community, to be honest this social event left us asking more questions than having answers as we didn’t get to speak as many people as we would have liked. 

We were lucky a second opportunity popped up close to this event and another local meet and greet event this time at a local function room in a pub, we walked in again feeling very nervous as we didn’t know what to expect but who do we see on walking into the event we saw the same transvestite from the first social and he was amazing as he introduced us to everyone in the event, just goes to show be nice and chat to people whatever their tastes are as you never know who they are or what they are into, and that was the just the start of our journey and as we say how it all began for us.

More stories to come in our next installment.

xx

Nitendays