Our first MFM threesome – Evolving in the swinging lifestyle while safely exploring threesomes
Curious about MFM threesome? Want to know more about how you can safely arrange a threesome in the swinging lifestyle or just want a little peak into a swinging lifestyle couple. Read on to learn about Honeyspoon experience crossing a fantasy off the list with their swinging lifestyle friends.
A little about us
Hello Lifestyle friends, we’re Mr. and Mrs. Honeyspoon (HS) and we’ve been in the LS for a little less than a year now.
We’re a couple in our 40’s who mutually stumbled into the lifestyle a little less than a year ago after contemplating a threesome with another woman. What started as a typical fantasy that many couples have, turned into an entire community and mindset we had no idea existed.
Being detail oriented, we began listening to various podcast, perused a few dating sites and established some principles and boundaries for our new journey.
Friends with Benefits
After a few months of chatting, dating and a few play sessions, we met [R&M]. We went on our first date at a vanilla bar and these two exceeded our expectations. Intelligent, attractive, respectful, and we would later find out they were sexually adventurous yet still new to the LS like us. We had a few dates, which extended to a few play sessions and developed a great “friends with benefits” relationship.
The Proposal
Did we mention they were sexually adventurous?
Mrs. HS: We were prepping for our son’s birthday party, and I was at a party store picking up balloons when my text started blowing up from Mr. HS messaging that I needed to check our kik chat immediately.
The message was from [M] with a proposal for [R] to join us as a third for an MFM while she was out of town the following week. They had been discussing pushing their boundaries, they trusted us, and it was fantasy they wanted to fulfill but were also fine if we weren’t comfortable. There was absolutely no pressure.
Mrs Honeyspoon is gorgeous, who wouldn’t want to be friends with benefits!
Our Reaction
Mrs. HS: I immediately got a rush of adrenaline, followed by anxiousness… I knew this was a game changer for us in terms of our boundaries but equally concerned to admit to Mr. HS that I was interested in the event if he wasn’t aligned.
Mr. HS: I immediately realized that this proposal broke rule # 14, only play with couples however breaking rules together seemed ok and pretty hot. The proposal was also from a couple we’d been with and trusted so it wasn’t as if it was a random single guy reaching out on LS site. The fact that the message came from [M] made me feel very comfortable that they were aligned and I knew that [R] and I would be able to fulfil [Mrs. HS] fantasy.
After much discussion, we both agreed we wanted to move forward but had to address a few concerns about what this would mean for the 4 of us as this was new territory for all. Would this create jealousy? was there an expectation of reciprocity? Were we ready for full swap? After ironing out a few details between the four of us, it was on.
Let’s get this plan in motion
First and foremost, we wanted our usual 4th to be included in our evening even though she would be out of town. Considering this was new for everyone, we felt very strongly that all comfort levels and requests should be considered. [M] requested pics to accompany the aftermath details from [R] and we also agreed that she could pull the plug on the plan at any point if she was feeling even remotely uneasy about anything.
The Evening
Mr. HS: Mrs. HS requested both men meet her at the lobby bar of a swank hotel downtown. She asked us to dress in nice suits as though we were meeting her for an important business meeting. She was wearing a tight, sexy black strapless dress.
Mrs. HS: Both men sat on either side of me at a small oval table. We sipped our drinks and chatted and both men each had a hand on my legs and were running their fingers along my thighs. My temperature was rising and after about another 30 min of teasing, I suggested we move our meeting upstairs.
Once upstairs, we poured another drink and after a few minutes, [R] started kissing me, and Mr. HS moved behind me kissing my neck. I started unbuttoning [R] shirt and undoing his belt and unzipped his pants. He turned me around to face Mr. HS and removed by dress while I undressed and kissed him.
The remaining evening allowed me to fulfill many of my desires in a submissive and dominating capacity. I enjoyed laying both men down so I could suck one while stroking the other, and equally enjoyed all the attention on me. I had an ongoing fantasy of experiencing DP which was mind blowing and the night proceeded with a number of positions and hours of ecstasy. By the end, we were all sexually exhausted and laid around naked and had a few more drinks and talked.
Sharing your partner & enjoying the lifestyle is so much fun
The Aftermath
Mrs. HS: I woke up with the biggest smile on my face after having my first MFM… however, I was experiencing a ton of anxiety waiting to hear if [R] had spoken with [M] and to find out how she was feeling about everything. After speaking with her and hearing how turned on she was by the stories of the evening was a huge relief. Her reaction to the evening also empowered me to want to push my boundaries and has elevated my confidence level.
Not everyone will always have an opportunity to have an encounter like this but it was a way in which we could explore an MFM in the swinging lifestyle and left me wanting more of the same.
A hotwife in her natural habitat, exploring her sexuality
Mr. HS: First I noticed her smile in the morning, then I noticed her naked body lying there and was overwhelmed with the urge to have sex again, and again. I think some refer to it as reclamation sex, I’m not a huge fan of the term because Mrs. HS isn’t a possession and I certainly don’t have a claim on her (she does have a heart of gold). It was an amazing experience that broadened our LS horizons and opened us up to more mind-blowing fantasies we couldn’t have imagined in our first year in the lifestyle.
Full disclosure, we ran this past our friends mentioned in this blog to gain their full consent to share this story.
We want to take a moment to thank Mr and Mrs Honeyspoon for sharing their swinging lifestyle exploration with us as a guest blog. We truly appreciate having a platform to share all the amazing diversity that the lifestyle has to offer. Please head over to their twitter page and show them some love.
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